Wednesday, October 12, 2005

Everybody knows it's true...

I'd just like to extend a huge, sincere THANKS to everybody for helping me out with their words of wisdom for fixing my problem. It's nice to have people help when they're looking in from the outside. It's easier to help when it's not happening to you.

Things are in the midst of being sorted right now. 'A' and I are finding a middle ground where we can just be friends and not be in a serious relationship together. I guess you could call it a technical breakup. Things won't be uncomfortable at work, but we won't be together either.
She has not totally accepted that the romance is over between us, but she knows the truth of the matter. She just needs a little bit more convincing.

I'll always be her friend, but only her friend.

5 comments:

that girl possessed said...

congrats darling. hopefully we can hang out next week some time and discuss. perhaps tea and hmmmm... a movie? or maybe a soda and mini golf?

Mike H said...

Yes to hanging out. I'll need to after this week is over.

It has been draining... all aspects of it.

Gareth said...

Glad you are working towards a resolution of this matter.
I can almost hear a tiny violin playing in the background!

Pockey said...

thats great mike, im happy that all seems to be going down a good road for you. You deserve to have someone that will make you happy and NOT leave you behind.

shipkicker said...

if you were in front of me, i'd hug you right now. i always find myself in this situation, and as much as i fight endings, whenever they happen, i always feel like a huge weights been lifted and wonder why i let it go on for so long. sometimes facing the truth is harder than staying in something you hate. so congrats for making the harder choice, but the right one. sorry to get all mighty there. but i mean it. :)